The last two weeks have been extremely busy. I spent part of my time in Vancouver attending the BC Crime Prevention Symposium. This year the conference was arranged differently than in the past focusing youth issues, seniors issues and gang related issues. What I would like to talk about here is internet safety and child exploitation.
Today, children are meeting a variety of needs online, including having fun, developing and maintaining friendships, seeking privacy, and exploring new interests. I am going to list just a few of the risks that your child’s internet experiences may pose.
Exposure to sexually explicit material
Never before have children had such easy access to sexually explicit material. Children are not developmentally ready to handle viewing of such content. Monitoring websites that your child is viewing and internet blocks are just two methods of protecting your child from this material. Also ensure that your search engine is set to filter results of searches.
Public nature of the internet
Children often underestimate the public nature of the internet. The often engge in private conversations and share private information, unaware of the lasting consequences of sharing this information.
Building relationships online
A portion of most children’s social world has moved online. The Internet is often used as a tool to form peer groups. Boundaries within relationships are often tested online, and lines are much more readily crossed. Communications online should be carefully monitored by the parent to prevent situations that your child is unable to handle.
Threats and coersion
Individuals seeking to exploit children may use threats that could result in the child sending an image (clothed or naked) of her/himself to this person. Talk to your child about the use of threats and that if they are ever threatened online to speak to a trusted adult.
Lack of boundaries
Individuals looking to victimize children online will build a relationship and turn the conversations sexual, asking personal questions.
The above risks are ones that the parent can monitor and teach their child about, but what about those cases where the risk has become the reality. What happens then?
I will talk a bit about this in my next post. If you want more information regarding interent safety for your family, please visit the Canadian Centre for Child Protection website at www.protectchildren.ca
Until next time….be good to each other.